bbw keep your clothes on WHY??

 I  AM A BBW ... BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMEN ....
who all her life has been degraded and made to feel like scum for even existing, made to feel like I am sub human even a monster .. and for along time actually believed it ..

then a miraculous thing happened I discovered PICS ... I started taking pics of myself and realized I wasn't that bad after all .. I took and used these pics for many years to boost my self esteem to boost my confidence  ... I did  it for ME no one else .. for ME ... I did NOT do it to try and attract a mate or to get sex ... I did it because I CHOSE TO ... NO MATTER IF I WAS SINGLE OR PARTNERED.. I STILL DID THEM.

I AM NOT UGLY AND I WILL BE DAMNED IF I WILL ALLOW A FATTIST SECTION OF  SOCIETY TELL ME I AM ..                                   this is me...

BUT EVEN I HAVE MY WEAK MOMENTS .. 

THIS IS ALSO ME 

I  have recently encountered some people one in particular who believe bbw who post and or take pictures of themselves as I have done for years as degrading and putting our BOOBS up on public display like prize winning melons, and that single bbw should never do it NO they should hide and remain ashamed to that idea I say one thing ...

BULLSHIT  if a single bbw chooses to do pics like I do I see NO HARM whatsoever, if a partnered bbw chooses to do it what on earth has it got to do with anyone else anyway ... as long as their partner is ok with your choices..  I MET MY MAN WHILE I RAN A BBW SITE WITH PICS ON DISPLAY..

I have always been and always will be a true believer that if you so choose to use any kind of pictures videos or ANY KIND OF SELF ESTEEM BOOST ... DO IT ... AND STUFF WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK ...  and if you choose to be more conservative that's ok to .. not everyone is going to agree on everything that is a fact of life...

 I am just one person with a belief .. a very strong belief in FREEDOM OF CHOICE!!
PUTTING A PIC UP OF YOURSELF IN LINGERIE OR SKIMPY CLOTHING DOES NOT MAKE YOU A TRAMP .....  in fact it shows a very big degree of self acceptance .. and there is nothing more sexy than a lady who is comfortable in her own skin showing her curves... and if they choose to take a pic in a bra or lingerie bathers or any choice of clothing they are comfortable in   MORE POWER TO YOU I SAY... SCREAM TO THE WORLD I WILL NOT BE JUDGED BY SOCIETY'S BELIEF YOU HAVE TO BE THIN TO BE SEXY!!!

Yes when you choose to post these pics you will get male attention BUT it is what you do with that attention that makes you who you are, you can smile like I do and thank them for their kind words OR you can jump any man's bones who takes an interest .. for me I choose to smile and thank ... knowing I have in some way brightened someone's day ... IS THAT SUCH A BAD THING???? NO and I have also for many years been a inspiration to other bbw NOT TO BE ASHAMED and not to hide any more ..

 yes it is true some men will  try and prey on women who are open and honest and will hone in on women like me as they foolishy believe I am a  easy target BUT your only a EASY TARGET  if you allow yourself to be ... and that goes for single ... and partnered BBW and that also goes for our thinner counterparts who choose to put a pic up in a bikini or any item of clothing that is revealing  ... a picture says a thousand words ... if you choose to be conservative fine whatever floats your boat I choose not to be .. that is my choice as a human being and I have that right to choose ... as a conservative lady has the choice to live how she see's fit ... and these two differing opinion have NO right to try and tell the other THEY ARE WRONG!!!

and one last thing I might add here ... this to me is an important message to get out MORE important than what clothes you choose to wear

have a good day everyone .. just started blogging so it is not exactly my forte yet but I will learn ....

peace out everyone .. take care of yourselves


SKILFULLFLOWER