Hi its skilfullflower again to speak about a topic that is a hard one yet I feel is worth taking the time to do its about child molestation, I would say on average 80 % or more bbw I know were victims of childhood abuse, spousal abuse or some kind of abuse .... Now I have done a verbal blog to go with this as it is easier to get across what I need to say verbally I am not a master writer never claimed to be lol ... the main thing I want people to realize is YOUR NOT ALONE ... many men and women of all shapes and sizes have been through horrific abuse ... now you can choose to let it ruin you or you can choose to let your past strengthen you ..
I do realize not everyone has the capacity to tackle this issue alone I do urge those of you who have difficulty coping to seek proffessional assistance I am in no way claiming to be a therapist or in anyway qualified to heal another human being ... BUT I can share my experience and some of the ways I used to get through, when I was at my lowest I am not ashamed to admit I sought help from a doctor and was put on medication to help me through a very dark time in my life when I was having flashbacks and immense trouble coping .. I CHOSE to seek help and I chose to live IN EVERY SENSE OF THE WORD ... others have been less fortunate than myself ... some due to underlying issues that choice to cope was taken out of their hands ... some manic depressant people feel they cannot seek help and some people have other underlying psychological or physical disorders that prevent them.. seeking help...
and to the people I have lost I dedicate this blog TO YOU
here is the verbal blog ...
I would also like to make mention that a VICTIM OF ABUSE is never and will never be responsible for the CRIME THAT WAS PERPETRATED ON THEM ... DO NOT KEEP THE SHAME ... HAND IT BACK TO WHERE IS BELONGS ... THE PREDATOR WHO HURT YOU !!
But I feel very strongly that within your own mind and the decisions you make you can start to reprogramme your brain to start to realize you are not trash ... you are not worthless ... you need to make a conscious decision to LIVE and don't mean only in a physical sense I also mean in a psychological sense, you can strive for a better life you can choose to allow the past to no longer control you ... you can choose to make your past a positive thing as it helped to mould you as a person .. and I know MOST if not ALL people I have known who have suffered DO become as they blossom beautiful compassionate people who DO CARE about other people enough to HELP when others may walk away and don't take the time .. as it is not within their realm of understanding.
This blog is one of many I am likely to post about this issue as it is a topic that is to close to me to ignore, what I have spoken about today is the tip of the iceberg... although it might take some time for me to redo this kind of post..
To all of the men and women out there BBW or not who have suffered ... THERE IS A LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL . DON'T GIVE UP ON YOURSELF ... AND LIVE!!!
AND TO THE BBW OUT THERE WHO HANG YOUR HEADS IN SHAME
LIFT YOUR HEAD UP HIGH AND REALIZE YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL YOU MATTER YOUR SPECIAL NO ONE WHO HAS BEEN THROUGH ANY KIND OF ABUSE SHOULD EVER HIDE!
This is another one of my slideshow video's of pics
I used to reprogramme my brain that I was not a piece of meat
I am beautiful no matter
WHAT THEY SAY
THE PEOPLE WHO TRY AND SAVE ME AND OTHER BBW BY TRYING TO MAKE US LOOSE WEIGHT OR TRY AND MAKE US SOMETHING WE ARE NOT ... THIS IS NOT REQUIRED ..... AND TO THEM I SAY THANK YOU FOR YOUR INTEREST BUT NO THANKS..
I am my own person ... and will make my own decisions ... AND THAT ALSO GOES THE OTHER WAY I WILL NOT BE OFFENDED IF PEOPLE HAPPEN TO HAVE A DIFFERENT VIEW OR LIFE EXPERIENCE WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT!! IF WE WERE ALL THE SAME LIFE WOULD BE VERY BORING ~~~~~~~~~INDEED !!
Peace out all , have a wonderful day and be happy
SKILFULLFLOWER
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